this phase came from my 6 years old son.. and, he is not like one of those mature kids who think beyond his age... even his teachers commented that he is behaving like a big baby sometimes.....
but,
that day i asked him a question... using my most "casual" tone that... if, one day, daddy moved to ah ma house, while the 3 of us continued to stay at our current place, will it be a wonderful idea?
he replied in a very serious tone... "why?? you and daddy are husband and wife... you all should stay together.. like my ah ma and ah gong... you see, there are times ah gong is very angry wif ah ma, but he still stayed wif her... and there are times when ah ma is very angry wif ah gong... she still stayed wif him... so we all should stay together because we are family, i want us to stay together...can you please dun get angry wif daddy?"
how i wish i could tell him the fact that i am not angry wif his daddy....but, his daddy is the one who no longer wish to be part of this family or even see us as his family... to him, we are nothing but trouble makers and burdens....even a stranger is far more important than the 3 of us...
can someone please tell me to be unfeeling and heartless like somebody i know, so i can ignore my son's feeling and go ahead to lead my sane, normal and not so twisted life??
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